Just a few days ago, my mom left for Korea after two months of helping me adjust to my new life as a mommy. I can't tell you how much I dreaded her leaving and how sad I was to see her go. For one, she was the best nanny one could ever ask for. She took care of the baby better than I could and whenever T would cry, a little cradling and a magic grandma Cho touch and T would quickly simmer down. Second, she was a diligent cleaner. Thanks to her, our place was immaculate and dust-free. The bed was always made. The bathrooms were always clean. Laundry was done. Third, she brought sanity to my life because she allowed me to go for runs, exercise at the gym (essentially, work on shedding the weight I had gained) and together, we would go for Vietnamese noodle and Indian buffet lunches and Target shopping. Fourth and most importantly, she was the best confidante and friend I could have ever asked for over the last 2 months. Whenever I was down, she would make me laugh. Whenever I had questions, she would always answer. I've always adored my mom but the last two months gave me another billion reasons for loving her even more.
Needless to say, if I've looked like I had my act together until now, behind this woman (me) was a much better woman (my mom). Don't be surprised if the next time you see me (or come for a visit) -- my house is a mess, my hair is a mess, T is a mess and I freak out on you. You've been officially warned.
Grandma Cho and T
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